Infertility is the kind of heartbreak that doesn’t make sense until you’re in the thick of it. It’s not just about two pink lines that never show up—it’s about the way it infiltrates every part of your life: your marriage, your friendships, your faith, even your sense of who you are. Looking back on my journey, here are ten truths I wish someone had told me before I started down this road.

Great leadership isn’t defined by titles or corner offices—it’s built through the small, intentional choices we make every single day. The most effective leaders understand that success comes not from power, but from consistency, courage, and authenticity.

When life hands you a diagnosis—or two—it’s easy to feel like you’re strapped into the backseat of your own journey. Doctors make the calls, test results dictate your days, and suddenly you’re reacting instead of living. That’s where health advocacy comes in. Advocacy isn’t about becoming a medical expert overnight; it’s about taking the wheel in your own care. It matters because your voice is the constant in a system where everything else can feel like moving parts.